Monday 23 July 2007

Why men want to marry early

Did you wonder about that too? Its a funny thing to ponder really. A lot of you probably still believe men like to stay single and enjoy the joys of bachelorhood. But trust me, i've come across a lot more men who want to marry younger than older. I didn't say how i came across them, so keep your minds straight. A lot of young girls I know are looking to marry and their parents are particularly concerned about what they'd do if their daughters don't get a groom when they are older! This one tamil actor went out of the way to proclaim that his ambition, note the word, was to marry before 21. You guessed right! It's the very same Dhanush. I heard one-of-'those'-girls-i know argue, quite vehemently, that the reason was they want to make quick money. Shocking as it may seem, it definitely has some merit. Everyone's playing to win some more money. I can totally imagine why marriage would be considered a good move, specially because the pluses don't just stop with the money thats coming in. I bet you know exactly what I mean ;) If men are ashamed to admit it, they try and blame it on their parents. Parent's are always happy to oblige. They've got their own interests too, which fall more into the category of things that the society is less embarassed to talk about. I'm not a hypocrite and I don't blame them at all for being, lets say, curious? But, I totally resent the fact that somehow it resembles a business and a way to make a few quick bucks. Nauseating fact! I bet some of the girls around are no less eager to get married. Blame it on the hormones. Don't you think the fact that pre-marital sex is considered taboo makes getting married look like a good option for those with a sensitive conscience? Well, I'll leave it there hanging. Sayonara

11 comments:

Vidya said...

hmm.. dunno !

fiddlesticks said...

ditto!!

Full Of Life said...

yep..exactly!!! :D

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Anonymous said...

may be men want to marry early but the reasons listed herein are not at all true. Dunno how rip n FoL have seconded ur opinion, or may be just some cultural differences.....completely shocked by the article. May be u cud give few rational arguemnts in ur favour rather than quoting just some actor.

-someone concerned by this school of thought :P

fiddlesticks said...

eh? ditto was for giz's comment!! ooh whos the concerned anon??

Got my foot in the mouth! said...

maybe anon can list some of the OTHER reasons. Can he?

gowri said...

y do the fkers comment anon.. y cant they reveal their damn names..
here is the cow revealing sumthin far more embarrassing than my identity.. the date of the comment !
better vry l8 thn never ??
I think there is sumthin in wat u hav to say?
Guess by the time i am fine with the idea of marriage.. they'll all be taken LOOL

Unknown said...

hmmm.. yeah vaish.. i agree abt the men wanting to marry early thing... (we r not talking personal stuff here ppl :P)

i guess its jus the fact that things have become so competitive.. and marriage, nowadays, has more of a market concept to it than just the noble thot of 2 ppl,2 families coming together ppl used to hold.. men wanna make sure they get the best ones.. so its befitting to get married early cus the options r wider and probablity of ending up with the best one(not necessarily the right one) is more... i guess mr.anon.. whoever u r wud find this a valid reason enuf(or rational or watever)

and vaish.. pre marital sex.. taboo.. blah blah... it was, is and will be considered that way... but i bet u for a million that ppl dont care even a bit abt it.. and most of these men who wanna marry early have already done it before they even got married.. so i think we can rule out the whole issue of lack of pre-marital sex as a reason for early marriages... hmm.. ofocurse exceptions r always there :)